What Is Your Life Like After Living Through A Life Of Binge Eating?
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August 2nd, 2009 | Tags: After, Binge, eating, life, Like, living, Through, What, Your
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I was a binge eater for years. I tried to be “skinny” for my boyfriends and seemed to always get the guys that wanted the skinny girl. I realized that I have curves and there ARE men that like them – finally!!!! I did some soul searching, and started to read about health and fitness…and started to eat the RIGHT fat burning foods. I stopped obsessing about my thighs and started to simply LIVE a healthy life. I do all kinds of cardio exercises and added weight training (a bit) to help me burn fat all around the clock – even when I sleep! That’s what weight training does. Being a female and doing weights does NOT mean you will get bulky. We simply get toned and lean and strong. I eat junk food – for fun – only once in a while…but the MAJORITY of the time…I eat the best and healthiest fat burning foods to help me along with staying in shape and yes…I still have curves, but they’re strong now! Binge eating is usually caused by unhappiness…and finding out and dealing with what you’re unhappy about is what you need to do FIRST. Make some changes…get happy and you probably won’t binge eat. Don’t let other people control your happiness. I married a man that prefers a very thin model-like figure…but after getting strong, fit and healthy and showing that I love myself…with more confidence…he sees a healthy attractive woman! I eat for me now…and that means whatever amount I feel is best for me as well. It took YEARS to get over this binge type of eating…but I found that with regular exercise and eating well…and ACCEPTING my physical shape…I am happier and don’t want to binge eat any more. It starts from within. My life has changed dramatically and for the better. But I had to do the work myself. No one else could do it for me. If it were that easy, no one would be binge eating. Finding out WHY you’re unhappy is the first step…and take it from there. Never give up on yourself. You CAN do it! I did…and I was the woman eating in the closet…believe me! I ended up doing three figure competitions. It IS possible! Just DO IT!..I have had 5 children by c-sections, and now I walk with my teenagers and people think I’m one of them (from far of course)! If I can stop binge eating…anyone can!